Confession: big, wet, sloppy baby kisses are my fa Confession: big, wet, sloppy baby kisses are my favorite. Especially when the baby is dressed as a pumpkin. #halloween #baby #mom
My favorite pumpkins in the patch 🎃🍁 #family My favorite pumpkins in the patch 🎃🍁 #family #fall #autumn #halloween
Officially walking into the -ber months like… 🎃🔪🎈🍁🤡

#fall #autumn #spookyseason #october #september #horror
Our oldest boy starts kindergarten this coming wee Our oldest boy starts kindergarten this coming week. I’m definitely in the parent camp of those excited for the beginning of the school year because the last weeks of the summer are brutally mundane, but I can’t stop thinking about the fact that my child is half a decade old.

That all went by so quickly. #kindergarten #parents #moms
Enjoying these last summer days 🦞 #summer #seaf Enjoying these last summer days 🦞 #summer #seafoodboil #dinner
Seven years ago you asked me to marry you — easi Seven years ago you asked me to marry you — easiest yes of my life (even easier than agreeing to open another bottle of wine together). 🍷 Does this constitute an anniversary? Either way, I love you! 💕 #anniversary
Over the last few days there have been ENDLESS deb Over the last few days there have been ENDLESS debates online about women choosing careers over family, sacrificing careers for family, being a SAHM, cooking, childcare, being a wife, etc. The list goes ON.

I think at the heart of it all we have to understand that each woman is supposed to make this choice for HERSELF. The ability to choose was, actually, the main focus of the original feminists.

I hope that every woman gets to make these choices for herself. And, whatever she does choose, I hope she embraces wholeheartedly. More than that, I hope that other women - even if they make a DIFFERENT choice - defend her freedom to make the decisions for herself.

Also, here’s what I did with those apples lol 🍏

#feminism #women #motherhood
Two realizations I’m having: 1.) I haven’t pos Two realizations I’m having: 1.) I haven’t posted a picture of myself in MONTHS and 2.) These post-baby margaritas hit you like a ton of BRICKS 🍍🧂🍹 #selfie #momlife #lol
Here’s to slow weekends with family and trying n Here’s to slow weekends with family and trying new recipes. I hope you’re all having a great weekend! ❤️🍅 (PS, the lemon-mascarpone stuffed tomatoes were 😍🍋) #weekends #recipes #cooking #foodie
My little deck garden’s tomato yield 🪴🍅 🌞

I love growing my own food. I dream of having a sizable garden one day but everything takes time. Gardening is a fitting metaphor for patience. You don’t yield fruit moments after planting a seed. Rather, fruit only grows after planting and watering and nurturing a small seed for a period of time.

This metaphor comforts me. #gardening #plants
Easy summer meal: clams and linguine 🍽️ Reci Easy summer meal: clams and linguine 🍽️

Recipe:
1. Bring a pot of salted water to a rapid boil.
2. Heat 1/3 c. olive oil in a large pot with sliced garlic and red pepper flakes till aromatic (how ever much you like of both!)
3. Once aromatic, add 3/4 c. white wine, 1/4 c. water, zest of one lemon, and 1-2 tbs lemon juice to olive oil. 
4. Once boiling, add scrubbed clams (I used 2 dozen) and cover the pot. 
5. Place linguine in boiling salted water and cook till al dente. 
6. Once the pasta is finished and the clams have opened, combine and enjoy with crusty bread, white wine, and good company 🥖 #recipe #clams #summer
Father’s Day, brought to you by @webergrills 🥩 Happy Father’s Day to all the dads out there! #fathersday
Cookin’ with Schukin! 🦐 Big thanks and shouto Cookin’ with Schukin! 🦐 Big thanks and shoutout to my Uncle Bobby for coming by for a cooking lesson and pinochle tournament! #summer #shrimpandgrits
I’m interrupting my posting hiatus to wish you a I’m interrupting my posting hiatus to wish you all a very happy halfway to Halloween 🧡 🖤 🧡 🖤#halfwaytohalloween #halloween #fall #autumn
I can’t believe tomorrow is already a week of th I can’t believe tomorrow is already a week of this little guy being here 🤍💙🤍💙 #baby #newborn
Introducing Stephen Frank Lopes 💙💙💙 #baby Introducing Stephen Frank Lopes 💙💙💙 #baby #announcement
Look, it’s been a long 40ish weeks… Baby Boy Look, it’s been a long 40ish weeks…

Baby Boy will be making his arrival any day now so we’re over here prepping with the essentials 🍼🍷🧴👶🏻👣 #baby #pregnancy #motherhood #postpartumjourney
Happy Valentine’s Day to my favorite boys 💙💙💙

…we’re just waiting on the third one to make his arrival! 🤰🏻 #valentines #pregnant #boymom
It’s been quiet over here on the Instagram due t It’s been quiet over here on the Instagram due to all the moving, but tonight I decided to not unpack yet another box and bake something delicious instead. 🫐🍋🫖

Baby Lopes #2 is due in just a little over two weeks and to say I am SCRAMBLING to get stuff done is an understatement 🙃 Tonight I actually had pretty strong Braxton Hicks contractions and realized I didn’t even pack a hospital bag yet hahahaaaaa brb… 😅 #moving #pregnancy
I *finally* got around to writing about my baby sh I *finally* got around to writing about my baby shower from last month! With all the craziness of the new house, getting ready for the baby, etc., I’ve had very little time to dedicate to my blog.

…but now it’s uploaded! ✨

I want to give a special shout out to @p.little.thingss for helping create such beautiful decorations for the party 🎈Jen was so helpful, creative, and listened to me for days about balloon colors and wood paneling 😂 I highly recommend Pretty Little Things for all your party needs!

Check out the link in my bio for more information ❤️ #babysprinkle #pregnancylife
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Entertaining & Recipes, House & Home · July 21, 2023

Italian Wedding Soup

Although in a recent post I complained about how quickly the summer was passing by, even I cannot deny that soup season is right around the corner. One of my favorite soups lately has been this Italian Wedding Soup that…

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Entertaining & Recipes, House & Home · July 18, 2023

Appreciating a Great Meal

As I alluded to in my last post, due to some personal (good, but personal) stuff I’ve not been posting as much. However, despite the whirlwind of the last few weeks, nothing reminds me to slow down more than appreciating…

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Entertaining & Recipes, House & Home · January 26, 2023

Escarole and Bean Soup

Escarole and bean soup is a common staple in many Italian or Italian-American households. It’s a great hardy soup, and it’s incredibly healthy and nutrient packed. Ingredients Directions Strain and rinse one can of cannellini beans and add them to…

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Entertaining & Recipes · November 1, 2022

French Onion Soup

It is amazing to me how quickly everyone shifts into “Christmas mode” immediately after Halloween. I am a huge fan of autumn so I am not quite ready to turn up the volume on the Bing Crosby Christmas playlist yet,…

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Entertaining & Recipes · August 3, 2022

Shrimp Fra Diavolo Recipe

One of my favorite meals to order out at an Italian restaurant is a seafood fra diavolo. I love spicy food and this is not a meal I ever make. …until recently! In our garden this year, we decided to…

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Entertaining & Recipes · July 26, 2022

Chicken Pot Pie Recipe

If you couldn’t tell by one of my recent posts, I am very excited about the upcoming fall! We are less than 100 days away from Halloween now, and even closer to the autumn season. In celebration of this (because…

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Entertaining & Recipes · June 22, 2022

Toddler-Approved Macaroni & Beef

This is a toddler-approved macaroni and beef recipe that our kid has been loving. The best part is the hidden veggies! (Just don’t tell him that…)

Entertaining & Recipes, Health & Beauty · June 8, 2022

What You Eat in a Day Doesn’t Make You a Better Person

Anyone who has Tik Tok (or any other social media platform, for that matter) is well-aware of the “What-I-Eat-In-A-Day” trend. It’s usually a video of someone logging “everything” they ate in one single day. Actually, I quite enjoy watching these…

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Entertaining & Recipes · April 26, 2022

Classic Roast Chicken

Roast chicken is a dinner that I serve as a weeknight meal at least once a week. Not only is it super easy to just pop in the oven, but it’s healthy, delicious, and comforting after a long day of…

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Entertaining & Recipes · April 25, 2022

Roasted Red Pepper and Spinach Chicken Marsala

Ingredients For sautéed spinach: 8 oz fresh spinach 1 tbs olive oil dash red pepper flakes 3 garlic cloves, sliced 1/2 tsp salt 1/4 tsp pepper For chicken: 3 boneless chicken breasts, sliced thin 1/2 c. flour 1/2 tsp salt…

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Health & Beauty · April 7, 2022

Three Things I Do When I Feel Unmotivated

April showers bring May flowers. …and Mayflowers bring pilgrims. That joke cracks me up. I know that joke is not some grand example of high comedy, but the innocence of it really just makes me laugh. All jokes aside, though,…

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Entertaining & Recipes · March 30, 2022

Ham & Swiss Quiche

Ingredients 1 tbs butter 1 medium onion, diced 5 eggs 1/2 tsp salt 1/4 tsp pepper 1/2 c. half and half 1/2 c. whole milk 1 c. ham, diced 1 c. Swiss cheese, shredded Directions Preheat oven to 375°. Grease…

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Confession: big, wet, sloppy baby kisses are my fa Confession: big, wet, sloppy baby kisses are my favorite. Especially when the baby is dressed as a pumpkin. #halloween #baby #mom
My favorite pumpkins in the patch 🎃🍁 #family My favorite pumpkins in the patch 🎃🍁 #family #fall #autumn #halloween
Officially walking into the -ber months like… 🎃🔪🎈🍁🤡

#fall #autumn #spookyseason #october #september #horror
Our oldest boy starts kindergarten this coming wee Our oldest boy starts kindergarten this coming week. I’m definitely in the parent camp of those excited for the beginning of the school year because the last weeks of the summer are brutally mundane, but I can’t stop thinking about the fact that my child is half a decade old.

That all went by so quickly. #kindergarten #parents #moms
Enjoying these last summer days 🦞 #summer #seaf Enjoying these last summer days 🦞 #summer #seafoodboil #dinner
Seven years ago you asked me to marry you — easi Seven years ago you asked me to marry you — easiest yes of my life (even easier than agreeing to open another bottle of wine together). 🍷 Does this constitute an anniversary? Either way, I love you! 💕 #anniversary
Over the last few days there have been ENDLESS deb Over the last few days there have been ENDLESS debates online about women choosing careers over family, sacrificing careers for family, being a SAHM, cooking, childcare, being a wife, etc. The list goes ON.

I think at the heart of it all we have to understand that each woman is supposed to make this choice for HERSELF. The ability to choose was, actually, the main focus of the original feminists.

I hope that every woman gets to make these choices for herself. And, whatever she does choose, I hope she embraces wholeheartedly. More than that, I hope that other women - even if they make a DIFFERENT choice - defend her freedom to make the decisions for herself.

Also, here’s what I did with those apples lol 🍏

#feminism #women #motherhood
Two realizations I’m having: 1.) I haven’t pos Two realizations I’m having: 1.) I haven’t posted a picture of myself in MONTHS and 2.) These post-baby margaritas hit you like a ton of BRICKS 🍍🧂🍹 #selfie #momlife #lol
Here’s to slow weekends with family and trying n Here’s to slow weekends with family and trying new recipes. I hope you’re all having a great weekend! ❤️🍅 (PS, the lemon-mascarpone stuffed tomatoes were 😍🍋) #weekends #recipes #cooking #foodie
My little deck garden’s tomato yield 🪴🍅 🌞

I love growing my own food. I dream of having a sizable garden one day but everything takes time. Gardening is a fitting metaphor for patience. You don’t yield fruit moments after planting a seed. Rather, fruit only grows after planting and watering and nurturing a small seed for a period of time.

This metaphor comforts me. #gardening #plants
Easy summer meal: clams and linguine 🍽️ Reci Easy summer meal: clams and linguine 🍽️

Recipe:
1. Bring a pot of salted water to a rapid boil.
2. Heat 1/3 c. olive oil in a large pot with sliced garlic and red pepper flakes till aromatic (how ever much you like of both!)
3. Once aromatic, add 3/4 c. white wine, 1/4 c. water, zest of one lemon, and 1-2 tbs lemon juice to olive oil. 
4. Once boiling, add scrubbed clams (I used 2 dozen) and cover the pot. 
5. Place linguine in boiling salted water and cook till al dente. 
6. Once the pasta is finished and the clams have opened, combine and enjoy with crusty bread, white wine, and good company 🥖 #recipe #clams #summer
Father’s Day, brought to you by @webergrills 🥩 Happy Father’s Day to all the dads out there! #fathersday
Cookin’ with Schukin! 🦐 Big thanks and shouto Cookin’ with Schukin! 🦐 Big thanks and shoutout to my Uncle Bobby for coming by for a cooking lesson and pinochle tournament! #summer #shrimpandgrits
I’m interrupting my posting hiatus to wish you a I’m interrupting my posting hiatus to wish you all a very happy halfway to Halloween 🧡 🖤 🧡 🖤#halfwaytohalloween #halloween #fall #autumn
I can’t believe tomorrow is already a week of th I can’t believe tomorrow is already a week of this little guy being here 🤍💙🤍💙 #baby #newborn
Introducing Stephen Frank Lopes 💙💙💙 #baby Introducing Stephen Frank Lopes 💙💙💙 #baby #announcement
Look, it’s been a long 40ish weeks… Baby Boy Look, it’s been a long 40ish weeks…

Baby Boy will be making his arrival any day now so we’re over here prepping with the essentials 🍼🍷🧴👶🏻👣 #baby #pregnancy #motherhood #postpartumjourney
Happy Valentine’s Day to my favorite boys 💙💙💙

…we’re just waiting on the third one to make his arrival! 🤰🏻 #valentines #pregnant #boymom
It’s been quiet over here on the Instagram due t It’s been quiet over here on the Instagram due to all the moving, but tonight I decided to not unpack yet another box and bake something delicious instead. 🫐🍋🫖

Baby Lopes #2 is due in just a little over two weeks and to say I am SCRAMBLING to get stuff done is an understatement 🙃 Tonight I actually had pretty strong Braxton Hicks contractions and realized I didn’t even pack a hospital bag yet hahahaaaaa brb… 😅 #moving #pregnancy
I *finally* got around to writing about my baby sh I *finally* got around to writing about my baby shower from last month! With all the craziness of the new house, getting ready for the baby, etc., I’ve had very little time to dedicate to my blog.

…but now it’s uploaded! ✨

I want to give a special shout out to @p.little.thingss for helping create such beautiful decorations for the party 🎈Jen was so helpful, creative, and listened to me for days about balloon colors and wood paneling 😂 I highly recommend Pretty Little Things for all your party needs!

Check out the link in my bio for more information ❤️ #babysprinkle #pregnancylife

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